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Most newlyweds will visit the major department stores to look for attractive wedding picture frames.  They are usually willing to spend a few dollars extra if the picture frame is attractive.  Frames with gold lines around the border are the most popular ones.  Brides especially like to see their wedding pictures in the frames with the golden border.  These frames come in various shapes and sizes.

 The latest trend seems to be the picture frames with themes. Themes could be hats or a sailboat.  A good theme could be some kind of current children’s toy or a popular children’s book.  Whatever the choice may be, the general idea continues to be that picture frames are in great demand, and brides especially love frames with attractive golden borders.

The tradition of tying shoes to the back of the the couple’s car originated in Tudor times.  It is believed that in those days the wedding guests would throw  shoes at the newlyweds.  In the event that the couple or their transportation was hit by a shoe, it meant good luck.  It is believed that in Anglo Saxon  times, the groom would establish his authority by symbolically hitting his bride with a shoe.  In response, brides would then throw a shoe to the bridesmaids to determine who would be next in line to marry.  This is similar to the wedding garter that is thrown by the groom to his groomsmen to determine who would be next in line to marry a wife.

The act of throwing old shoes after the bride symbolizes that authority has been transferred from her father to her new husband.  A variation of this event is for the bride’s father to throw her shoe after the groom as a symbol of his surrender of his prized daughter.  The tradition of the old shoe and that of the wedding garter seem to share common threads.

It is commonly believed that the throwing of rice on the couple has been symbolic of wishing them prosperity and good luck.  The  Asian custom of rice throwing is believed to be an unspoken wish for the couple to always have a pantry full of food.  In addition to rice, other grains such as wheat and barley are sometimes thrown on the newlyweds.  Like rice, the other grains also wish prosperity and a life of plenty.

Modern couples seem not to mind this tradition.  Just as they welcome the tradition of lighting the Wedding unity candle during their wedding ceremony, they welcome the throwing of rice , wheat or barley.  Newlyweds all seem to want the same things; they want their marriage to last and they want to experience success in all that they do.

One of the most desired accessories for any bride is a  pearl necklace with matching earrings. These accessories seem to possess the special ability to light up the face of any bride. The combination of a pearl necklace and Pearl earrings seem to instantly transform the features of the bride. Brides seem to have an inbuilt ability to glow on their special day. It is commonly believed that the power of positive thinking causes brides to glow. The body seems to produce special substances that are stimulated by the happiness they feel on their wedding day.

The other commonly repeated statement seems to be that ‘nobody has ever seen an ugly bride’. Maybe the traditional white outfit coupled with the spirit of expectation causes a beautiful transformation in the eye of the beholder.
Whether these explanations are true or not it certainly gives us an explanation for a phenomenon we barely understand. One thing is sure and that is; most individuals love to attend weddings and they rarely go to see the groom.  Everybody wants to see the bride.  When it becomes common knowledge that you were in attendance at a wedding; the question you are most likely to be asked is; “what was the bride wearing”.   It  doesn’t  seem to matter if the groom was even there.   It is a cultural practice. No harm meant, I’m sure.

In my childhood years I remember attending quite a few weddings , mainly with my grandparents.  I remember how well groomed the members of the wedding party appeared.  My grandfather was once asked to be a give away father because the real father of the bride was unable to attend the wedding due to illness.  My grandfather wore a grey suit with bright shiny cuff links that allowed the golden rays of the afternoon sun to bounce off them with glee.

The groomsmen wore nicely tailored suits with small rose buds trimmed with green leaves in their lapels.  How well mannered they appeared as they walked half way down the isle to escort the bridesmaid that was their partner in the wedding.  The girls were always elegantly dressed in evening gowns and spike heels.  I was too young to wear those kinds of outfits.  I usually sat with my grandmother and spoke only when I was addressed directly by an adult.

I enjoyed the reception more than the ceremony itself, when I was young.  I liked the speeches that the members of the bridal party gave. I enjoyed the toast to the bride and also to the groom. I also liked to listen to the toasts to the bridesmaids and maid of honor.  The toasts to the parents of the bride and groom were the highlights of the evening.  I still enjoy attending weddings now that I am an adult, but it seems as if the finer details are often missing.

They served well from the very first time you asked them to be a part of your wedding.  They never complained when the rehearsals were long and tiresome.  They sometimes had meals later than usual, but never fussed about it.  They were delighted to be part of such a colorful group of individuals working together to make your wedding a huge success.  It is high time to consider a collection of gifts that would appeal to these special individuals.
These gifts should be attractive items that each recipient would be pleased to display in their home or office.  They should last a few years at least.

Securing special wedding party gifts such as an accessory case, requires time and much consideration. A gift should fit the personality of the recipient.  A suitable gift for a quiet and introverted individual should definitely be different from the one selected for a more vivacious and extrovertical individual.  After determining which items will be selected for each member of the wedding party, the next step is to see if the prices line up with the amount budgeted for this expense.

Gifts for the members of the wedding party should be given before the bride and groom leave for their honeymoon.  The wedding coordinator is usually responsible for carrying out the wishes of the bride and groom.   She may be the person who wraps each gift and puts the finishing ribbons on each item.  The coordinator is a key individual at any wedding.

People no longer feel the need to behave ‘out of place’ when they are invited to the wedding of a bi -racial  couple. Gone are the days when couples from different racial/ ethnic backgrounds allowed individuals who feel strongly about these  issues, to influence their world view  and ultimately  their behaviors.

Every individual deserves to be respected until he/she provides enough reason not to be respected.  A wedding is a joyful occasion to which friends and family are invited to come together to celebrate the beginning of a new union.  There should be laughter, tears of joy, hugs and exchange of sentiments. Everyone should be prepared to throw caution to the wind as they celebrate the new beginning of life together for the bride and groom.  There should be music and dancing and lifting of champagne flutes to offer creative toasts to the special couple.

It is strongly believed that the laughter, fun and celebration should only get better after the “I do’s” are done.  The special couple should be encouraged to delve into life with a spirit of celebration and lots of encouragement from friends and family.  These special people who can be counted on to be a system of support as they navigate the sometimes winding path called marriage.  Cheers to the bi-racial couple!

A ring pillow provides an important cushion on which one of the most important wedding symbols usually sits.  The broom is also an important symbol in many African American weddings.   Jumping the symbolic broom is believed to be a page from the book of African American tradition.  A young man and his young bride were not considered to have formally crossed the treshold from their old life into their new life if they did not jump the broom.  The broom was believed to be symbolic of a wall.  This wall was a reminder of the commitment the couple made to each other.   The commitment to forsake all others and to cleave to each other.

Even though jumping the broom is considered an African American wedding tradition, the meaning transcends both race and culture.  Every new bride and groom regardless of race and culture would like to have a marriage that is rich with true love and loyalty to their wedding vows.  Couples truly want honesty and trust in their relationship.  I believe they want transparency in their love relationship and less influence from Hollywood.

I believe an informal poll would reveal that more couples prefer the concept of the ‘wall’ in their marriage.  The ‘wall’ that blocks out anything destructive to the marriage relationship and embraces those things that enhance the marriage.

My friend Edith was always great at organizing any and everything.  When it came to her wedding reception all her friends expected nothing less when we saw the elegant signature vase that Edith used as centerpiece for each of the several tables prepared for her guests.

The signature vase was tastefully arranged with long stem red roses. The outside surface of the vase was reserved for the signature and well wishes of all the guests sitting at each table.  This has become a more practical option for preserving precious memories.  Memories that seem to transcend time.  It is believed that the signature vase will hold these valuable memories for years without smudging or erasing them.

If the signature vase is any indicator of the strength and durability of Edith’s marriage; I would say that the forecast looks quite good.  She has the substance to work hand in hand with her husband Dennis to make their marriage last for a lifetime.

A ringbearer is a young male attendant at a wedding. This type of wedding attendant is less common than it used to be, but is still a way of including young relatives or the children of relatives and friends in a wedding.

In a formal wedding, the ringbearer is a special page who carries the wedding rings for the bridal party. This is almost always symbolic, with the ringbearer carrying a large wedding ring pillow on which imitation rings are sewn, while the real wedding bands are kept in the safekeeping of the best man. If the real rings are used, they are tacked on with thread to prevent their accidental loss.

The ringbearer as a separate role is a relatively modern innovation. In a white wedding ceremony, the best man carries the rings.

Ring bearers are often nephews or young brothers (although they can also be nieces or sisters) and are generally in the same age range as flower girls, which is to say that they are no younger than about 5 nor older than 10.